,SC>CE ,OR ,ABUNDANT1 ,NO?+ ,AB\T ,LOVE ,%\LD ,BE ,CASUAL 

,PEOPLE 3 

,AU?OR 3 ,WILLIAM ,GILLIS 

,TEXT 3 

,! ALLURE1 TO ME1 ( POLYAMORY HAS ALWAYS BE5 ITS PROMISE ( ADDRESS+ REALITY HEAD ON4 ,( COMMUNICAT+ & GRAPPL+ ) ! COMPLEXITIES 9 \R LIVES & RELATION%IPS 9 AN HONE/ & AUDACI\S MANN]4 ,BUT ,I AM NOT SO ON BO>D ) ?OSE :O DEF9E IT AS 9 T]MS ( 0CASUAL LOVE40 

,! COMP>ISON TO CASUAL SEX IS 5TIRELY MISGUID$ 9 MY OP9ION4 444,( C\RSE ,I FREELY ADMIT ,I MAY NOT HAVE ! HI<E/ CR$5TIALS 9 ?IS >EA4 ,CASUAL SEX WILL PROBABLY ALWAYS SEEM LIKE A CRAZY SCIFI CONCEPT TO ME1 COMPLETELY DETA*$ FROM F> MORE REALI/IC & TANGIBLE NOTIONS LIKE SPACE ELEVATORS & TIME TRAVEL DEVICES ! SIZE ( GALAXIES4 ,9 SOME S5SE IT'S SILLY TO PAY SU* AN \TL&I% NOTION TOO MU* ATT5TION :5 !RE'S TOY SPACETIME METRICS TO SOLVE1 BUT ,I APPRECIATE ON SOME LEVEL ?AT ?IS PROBABLY ISN'T ! CASE = ALL Y\ COOL KIDS4 ,& Y\'RE PROBABLY ALL MAK+ \T ) EA* O!R OR SOME?+ ! MOM5T ,I LEAVE ! ROOM4 ,S\NDS WOND]FUL4 ,H[EV]1 EV5 ?\< IT MI<T BE EXP]IM5TALLY UNFEASIBLE TO TE/ 9 A ,TYPE ,I ,CIVILIZATION1 ,I'VE DONE ! CALCULATIONS & CASUAL SEX1 CASUAL FLIRTATION1 CASUAL 9FATUATION1 ALL ( ?OSE >E QUITE WORKABLE AT HI< FREQU5CIES & !RE DON'T SEEM TO BE ANY EXCLUSION PR9CIPLES TO !IR WAVEFUNCTIONS4 ,! HAIRY BITS >E ULTIMATELY JU/ 5G9E]+ PROBLEMS4 ,& S9CE YALL SEEM TO BE ON SU* A HI<] ,K>DA%EV COOLNESS SCALE ?AN MYSELF1 ) Y\R HIP DANCE P>TIES & Y\R Z]O-PO9T 5]GY EXTRACTION DEVICES ?AT SPIT \T EXOTIC MATT] LIKE SOCIALLY CONV5TIONAL SMALL TALK1 ,I HAVE NO D\BT Y\ CAN SOLVE !SE ISSUES4 

,BUT CASUAL LOVE8 ,I MAY BE HANG+ TOO MU* ON EI!R ( ?OSE WORDS1 YET ,I /ILL SUSPECT ,I DISAGREE MORE ?AN ,I AGREE4 

,MO/LY BECAUSE LOVE ISN'T SOME K9D ( PASSIVE 5T]TA9M5T OR FLEET+ HUNG]1 LOVE 9VOLVES S]I\S ONTOLOGICAL RECONFIGURATIONS4 ,OR AT LEA/ !RE'S A ?+ ?AT HAPP5S1 :5 Y\ GR[ TO KN[ A P]SON1 :5 ?AT P]SON IS SM>T1 CREATIVE1 & K9D1 :5 !Y CAN SURPRISE Y\1 SEE ! SAME ?+S Y\ CAN SEE1 & BEHAVE ) EI!R SU* COMPASSION OR REGUL>ITY ?AT Y\ CAN RELAX Y\R %IELDS >\ND !M1 :]E !Y BECOME QUALITATIVELY MORE REAL TO Y\4 ,ALMO/ AS REAL AS Y\RSELF4 ,:]E Y\R MIRROR NEURONS JIGGLE & DANCE 9 TUNE ) !M1 A <O/ ( !M MOV+ ALONGSIDE Y\ AT ALL TIMES4 

,LOV+ SOMEONE REMAKES Y\RSELF4 ,BUT MO/ IMPORTANTLY1 EV5 IF ?AT <O/ FADES TO A SIL5T UNNOTIC$ E*O1 ! IMPRESSION LEFT BY ! EXP]I5CE RE%APES Y\R E?ICAL REALITY4 ,Y\ >E NOT ALONE4 ,TANGIBLY4 ,PROVABLY4 ,!RE >E O!R M9DS4 ,9 A WAY IMPOSSIBLE TO ASC]TA9 M]ELY KICK+ BALLS ) ! %RIEK+ AUTOMATONS ON ! PLAYGR\ND OR BANG+ ONE 9 A BA?ROOM OR BE+ OV]COME ) ! NOVELTY ( A NEW AUTOMATON ) H&SOME HYDRAULICS4 ,& ?IS IMPLIES AN ABSOLUTE E?ICAL OBLIGATION4 

,TO LOVE IS TO ME% SO RAWLY ) ANO!R /ORM ( ?\<TS Y\R ID5TITY BLURS ) !IRS4 ,:I* IS NO REASON TO %Y AWAY6 ,BUT FALL+ 9 LOVE M>KS A PHASE *ANGE 9 ! E?ICAL L&SCAPE4 ,:]EAS BE=E Y\ AT LEA/ C>$ AB\T !M 9 AN AB/RACT OR PROBABILI/IC WAY1 AFT]W>DS ?AT EMPA?Y IS H>DWIR$1 ABSOLUTE1 & IMM$IATE4 

,:ILE Y\R OBLIG$ BEHAVIOR MI<T REMA9 PRECISELY ! SAME 7AVOID+ SMO!R+ !M1 NON-DRAMATICALLY WI%+ !M GOODBYE AS !Y TAKE (F = ,M>S ! NEXT DAY1 DI/ANC+ Y\RSELF OR O!RS FROM !M IF !Y GR[ ABUSIVE4447 IF Y\ CAN DISMISS ! REWIR+ 9 Y\RSELF AS NO BIGGIE !N ,I W\LDN'T REMOTELY CALL ?AT LOVE4 ,!RE'S A PLE?ORA ( LESS] WORDS AVAILABLE = M]E PASS+ EMOTIONS4 

,C]TA9LY ONE C\LD >GUE ?AT 9 A WORLD ( HI<] B&WID? COMMUNICATION1 ( GREAT] SECURITY & DEFAULT 9TIMACY1 ! PHASE B\ND>Y MI<T BREAK D[N A BIT4 ,BUT ,I W\LD >GUE ?AT EV5 IF WE W]E TO H&WAVE AWAY ! LIMITATIONS ( HUMAN BRA9S & EV5 ! POSSIBLE PROPORTIONAL SYN*RONIZATION LIMITS TO ANY M9D1 LOV+ SOMEONE IS NEV] 9 ANY S5SE A 0CASUAL0 AFFAIR4 ,EV5 IF Y\ C\LD FULLY LOVE EV]YONE ON ! PLANET ?AT W\LDN'T OR %\LDN'T DEFANG Y\R LOVE ( ITS 9T5SITY4 ,LOVE ISN'T A FLEET+ SELFI% CRAV+ :]E ! LOSS ( ONE 9 SEV5 BILLION AVAILABLE S\RCES TO DEA? BY MALNUTRITION W\LD BE A NE> 9F9ITESIMAL CONC]N4 ,JU/ AS Y\R LOVE IS NOT A PIE ?AT CAN ONLY BE SUBDIVID$ 9TO SMALL] UNWOR?I] PIECES1 LOVE IS NOT SOME?+ Y\ CAN FILL A LIMIT$ /OMA* ) BY SIMPLY HAV+ MANY C>TONS TO SPOON FROM4 

,! P[] ( LOVE DOESN'T & %\LDN'T LIE 9 ITS SC>CITY4 

,YES1 !RE >E DEEP PROBLEMS ) \R CURR5T SOCIETY1 BUT ,I'D DIAGNOSE ?OSE PROBLEMS AS CON/RA9TS ON & IMP$IM5TS TO \R CAPACITY TO DEAL ) 9T5SITY1 NOT ! EXI/5CE ( 9T5SITY ITSELF6 

,! IMPULSE TO WAT] D[N FEEL+S & CONSEQU5TLY DECL>E ONESELF 0MATURE0 IS A DEAD5+1 *EAP5+1 & UNE?ICAL APPROA* TO LIFE4 ,RATIONALITY1 SELF-KN[L$GE1 & CL>ITY ( M9D >E 9 NO S5SE ANTI!TICAL TO 9T5SITY4 ,& RESI/+ ! LATT] IS C]TA9LY NOT A GOOD PA? TO ANY ( ! =M]4 

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